Why Is the Bar so Low for Dads?

On society’s tendency to thank men for performing basic parenting duties

Pamela
Family Matters
Published in
3 min readApr 30, 2020

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Not too long ago, I attended a baby shower on a Saturday afternoon. The next day the grateful mother-to-be thanked my husband for looking after our children while I was at the event. I paused for a split second to consider the weight of her words.

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Pamela
Family Matters

I moved to China in 2011. Expat Mum. Freelance writer. Author of— The “M” Word: A Collection of Stories about Miscarriage & Hope.